
What Causes Chronic Fatigue?

Are we saying that CFS is all in the mind? Absolutely not!

Having suffered from CFS/ME for a whole decade, I well understand the completely debilitating effects of living with unrelenting exhaustion and pain, and constantly fearing that I may never recover. Thankfully, I made a full recovery in just two weeks by doing a mind-body course in 2008 and I have been healthy and energised ever since. My own recovery story can be found on the About Mel Abbott page. It is now my passion to help other people to recover. CFS is my largest client group, making up over a third of my client base. Around 80 – 90% of them get rid of all or most of their symptoms, resume normal exercise, work life and social life. They ranged from totally bedbound to mild fatigue, from four months to 40 years of illness and age ranges from 10 to 78 years old. testing
There is a growing body of research into CFS from the perspective of a biopsychosocial model which looks at the complex interplay between our biology and our mind.
This research is consistent with what I have observed. I don’t think there is one microbiology cause of CFS. I have observed that people develop CFS from many different causes. CFS can develop after glandular fever or a bad case of flu, a physical injury, an emotional trauma such as a divorce, bereavement or abuse experience, burnout from highly successful careers, the Type A personality effect (motivated, ambitious, driven, intelligent, perfectionist) or following other medical treatments such as chemotherapy or surgery. With such a wide range of origins, it is very unlikely that one common virus could be found.
What is common to all these people
is that their experience put their body into a stress response.
It is my belief that this is the true cause of CFS.
When people experience a stress response for a significant period of time, it drains all their organs because it is so demanding on the body to be in a constant state of flight or fight. This can reach a tipping point where the body becomes too exhausted to repair itself. Helping clients to calm their body out of the stress response allows their body to heal naturally.
CFS is a very real, physical condition but my experience has been that you cannot separate mind and body – both are having an impact. If you change mind patterns and calm the physical stress response in the body, this can allow the body to activate its own healing and can help to resolve CFS and other physical conditions.
The Switch will teach you how to switch off the stress response, which will allow your body to start healing naturally. You will also learn how to recognise thinking patterns and behaviour patterns that are contributing to fatigue, plus techniques to change these. You will resolve any deeper emotional issues from the past that might also be contributing to you remaining sick. You will also learn how to make lifestyle changes to promote wellbeing.
If you don’t feel quite ready to jump into a four-day course, you might like to start with our webinar series, which gives an overview of mind-body health, the role of stress and thinking patterns, and some basic techniques to start using on yourself. This webinar is a general approach, rather than being specifically about chronic fatigue. For some people, it’s enough on its own, and for others, it is their inspiration and lead-in to doing the full Switch programme.
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1. Get your hope back about recovery being possible by watching some of the movies on this website. Just knowing that there is an answer to chronic fatigue can help people to relax and calm their stress response and get a bit of a lift in energy levels.
2. Start actively reducing your stress response by doing things like meditation, breathing exercises, and activities that you find particularly relaxing.
3. Many clients have found that using a little more energy in their voice tone and body language can help them to start accessing some energy. However, this just only be done in conjunction with calming the stress response. Until you have calmed your body out of the stress response and allowed natural healing to take place, it is unwise to do large amounts of exercise. If you are in a totally bedridden stage of ME, you would need to calm the stress response before attempting the suggestions on this page.
CFS is often a complex condition with many patterns that need to be changed to allow healing. If these very simple interventions are not enough for you, that’s OK. We have far more comprehensive techniques and education available at The Switch that will allow you to make bigger transformations.
* Disclaimer: Mel Abbott is not a medically trained doctor. She is trained in psychology and neuro-linguistic programming. She uses mind-body interventions to help calm the stress response and allow natural healing to occur in the body. This can be used alongside mainstream treatments if you choose. She does not offer diagnoses or medication advice. She recommends that clients return to their doctors after her treatment to confirm that they no longer have their condition and to be advised about safe weaning from their medication.
Mel does careful assessments prior to the programme and only offers places to people whom she thinks would benefit from it. She follows up with all her clients at several junctions after their course and collates the data from their feedback forms to produce the statistics on this website. She is therefore confident that her interventions are helping over 80% of her clients to achieve significant improvements to their health. While many clients report that they have made a full recovery, Mel cannot guarantee this outcome. So far there are no independent research studies or peer reviewed journal articles about The Switch®, though she would welcome such studies to take place.
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